Are you planning to visit Japan in the upcoming weeks or months? If yes, you have made an ideal decision to witness one of the coolest places on earth with its diverse landscapes, fashion industry and technological advancements. But the question that concerns most people who are travelling here for the first time is: “How will I survive there when I don’t even know the language (Japanese)”. However, this concerns only the first-time visitors; the ones who have been here before know that the generosity and warmth of people here make you feel as one of their own before you know it.
Even as a stranger, wherever you go, you would see the humble, polite attitude of people around you who would bow to greet you. This tradition of ‘bowing’ is not new; it has been codified in the Japanese values for hundreds of years. It is more than a greeting; it is a depiction of respect, humbleness and politeness. And this courteous attitude of the people makes you feel special. Such politeness can be seen in daily life. For example if a stranger mistakenly hits the other, he is quick to say, “Sumimasen” (meaning Sorry, Excuse me) with an affirming smile.
Two experiences are worth sharing. One is when you ask a ‘stranger’ about the road directions. The response you get is overwhelming. Contrary to the hectic schedule of people, they greet graciously and start explaining the directions with a glowing smile and animated expressions. Most people are not comfortable speaking English, therefore they may explain in Japanese. And after every step they would ask, “Did you get it?” Due to the language barrier, if one is not able to understand the directions they would react patiently and explain it all over again. If you nod saying that you understood them, it would bring a broad smile to their face. This shows the kind, chivalrous values in Japanese people that make you feel as one of them; in a matter of seconds you realize that he/she can’t be claimed as a stranger.
The second scenario is where you get to experience the immense courtesy in shops, restaurants; the moment one enters the shop, the person in the counter welcomes gracefully. The most astonishing scenario is set in banks and offices. As you make your way to and fro from the gate to the designated counter everyone looks up at you, smiles and wishes a good day. I was deeply astonished when I exited from the Citi Bank and the security personnel on the door smiled saying, “Thank you for opening your account at Citi Bank”. It is these small acts of courtesy that makes Japan cool and unique. It makes you feel special.
Another unique aspect that needs to be made is that in many countries in the theft rates are high; it is not safe, especially at night. Before coming to Japan I was always careful not to carry my cell phone when leaving the home late at night. On the contrary, situation in Japan is safe. People travel with a sense of security which for me, at least, is a positive aspect.
On the whole, it is not only the technological advancements, economic growth and scenic beauty that make Japan a cool country, it is also the people. They greet respectfully, talk courteously and make friends generously. It is the values in Japanese people that make Japan a cool country to live in.
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